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Mending bridges in August

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How are you?  

Take a deep breath and check in with yourself.
Straighten your back.
Draw your shoulders away from your ears.
Unclench your jaw.
Relax your face :)
And check in again - how are you in this moment?

So often we're carrying physical tension in our bodies without being aware of it. I know my shoulders like to make their way up to my ears when I'm not paying attention!

Wow, we're practically in August (wasn't I just saying that about July?) After the lovely response you…

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The most important relationship of your life

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I feel drawn to focus on the most important relationship of all - the only guaranteed relationship until the day you die - the one with yourself.

All you need is one person for your entire life to change.
One person that speaks to you with love and truth.
One person to see you in your highest state.
One person to elevate your mind, body and soul.
One person to believe so much that your dreams and aspirations are evolving into reality. 
That person.. THAT PERSON NEEDS TO BE YOU.
The esse…

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Thinking about an ex or an old falling out?

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Have you been thinking about an ex? Or an old friend you no longer speak to? We're in a time (astrologically speaking) where old wounds regarding relationships are surfacing. The pandemic and a slower pace of life has given us pause to think about people no longer in our lives and for them to think of us too. Perhaps an ex has popped into your mind or you've come across an old photo or gift from a friend you're no longer in contact with. Or perhaps (as happened to me last week) someone from an…

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Keeping it light

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I don't know about you but I feel I've turned a corner this week. Last week's intense energies culminating with the weekend's Full Moon Lunar Eclipse caused a lot of mental, emotional and energetic purging for me. It was hard, dark, painful and scary at times. I was fortunate I am grounded in my self-empowerment practices and grateful soul-mates showed up at exactly the perfect moments to help me through. Now, I feel a lightness dancing in my heart that only I know. I feel more love and apprecia…

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Insights for the second half of 2020

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Wow we are in July. Six months of this unusual year have passed already. It seems the months are racing by but at the same time pre-quarantine seems a long, long time ago! 
This is the perfect time to pause and reflect. What have you learnt so far this year? What have you discovered about yourself during the lockdown? And, what has fallen away only not to be missed?
For me, I've realised the connection of my friendships is so deep that not seeing one another in person hasn't had a huge impac…

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Are you afraid to go above your station?

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How many times have you been told not to get above your station? Don't get too big for your boots? Stay at "your level"?

Sometimes this comes from Fathers and Grandfathers (and sometimes the matriarch) who don't want their offspring to venture too far out (or up) and instead stay within the family orbit. If you think of an orbit as a horizontal path with a gravitational pull - if everyone in the family stays in its 'orbit' i.e - at the same horizontal level - then "we are all together". If one …

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Summer Solstice energy from my personal altar

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After a birthday hiatus last week (FULL of unexpected abundance!) I wanted to wish you a Happy Summer Solstice and New Moon 🌒 This is said to be one of the most energetically transformative weekends of the year with an eclipse in today's New Moon creating a ring of fire. How is yours going?

I also wanted to share with you my altar from last night. I spent yesterday flowing in stillness, with deep insights being uncovered, in ceremony, and indescribable heart connection. I had a spontaneous fire c…

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When you don't know what to say

Honestly, I'm not sure what to share with you this week... White friends have been asking "How are you?" and "Have I ever been insensitive or unconscious of my privilege?" and want to know "What can I do?". Honestly - I don't have the answers right now. The racial tensions in the world threw open my own buried treasure chest of racist experiences. From being racially abused in primary school being called a "Paki" and told to "Go back to where you came from" to having a heated argument with a kid…

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Do you feel things deeply?

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So many of my healing clients have needed to hear this this week. The topic of sensitivity and feeling deeply has been coming up for so many. We are often shamed out of our sensitivity and told we are "too much" or "feel things too deeply" which causes big scars into adulthood. Also, I would go so far to say that sensitive people get very sad not over "stupid" things but perhaps things others may perceive as small or minor. They're still valid feelings though 😊♥️ And in times of uncertainty …

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7 things I'm enjoying..

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I've had an intense week and also been coaching so many clients through intense emotions and old unresolved hurts this week. All since the Scorpio Full Moon last Thursday. Perhaps you've been experiencing this too? Suddenly thinking of grievances or exes from your past? People you haven't thought about in years popping into your mind? Old anger/hurt/betrayal/resentments surfacing? We seem to be in a period where we can't stuff those painful dark experiences back down this time! If this is you an…

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